Why should I teach my children emotional intelligence?

Many parents even began to wonder: is the child's character bad? Is the child not smart enough? Dalian family education to tell you, in fact is not really. Children have no sense of existence in the collective, dare not express their own ideas, and are not easy to make friends

It is not because the child is not good at expressing himself or herself, but because the child is not good at expressing himself. Once a child has the ability of language expression, he will become confident, have a good personality, and be competitive in the future. Good public expression ability is the primary ability of high-quality compound talents.

Adolescence is an important period with strong plasticity. If you give correct guidance and training in this period, the effect will be more remarkable.

A white paper on the psychic survey of 12-18 year olds shows that:

More than half of the teenagers have no self-confidence. It can be seen that more than half of the teenagers' interests and dreams have begun to sprout, but they lack good guidance and companionship to help them realize their dreams. In terms of self-image, more than half of the people feel that they can not meet the expectations of others. Even one in every four people does not like themselves, which means that they lack positive encouragement and affirmation in their growing environment.

At the same time, the survey shows that children are eager for:

1、 Confidence;

2、 Respect from parents;

3、 Get the expectation of others;

4、 Have good popularity;

5、 Be able to set goals and achieve them.

Therefore, more and more parents have begun to pay attention to their children's EQ education, and some even started from childhood. If IQ determines a person's growth direction, then EQ determines how far and how stable a person can go in this direction.

The goal of raising children is to integrate into society. Many parents also realize that academic achievement is not the whole of their children, but they have high emotional intelligence. Only when they come to society can they better cope with complex interpersonal relationships and heavy workload.

"Adolescence is a crucial and special period in life." At this time, the emotional characteristics of teenagers have obvious polarity. Or excited, excited, very enthusiastic; Or become angry, easily discouraged, and become depressed.

Learning how to manage emotions and stress can help young people better understand their own inner self, better understand others and establish harmonious relations with them, learn to better manage emotions and stress, so as to become physically and psychologically mature. In the future, they will be more relaxed to face various challenges in life, with energy in their hearts and strength in their actions!