How should parents love their children?

All parents in the world love their children. However, it is not a simple thing for parents to really understand, love and educate their children.

If you love children, you should respect them

Parents love their children on the premise of respecting them.

To respect children means to insist on negotiation with children in daily Dalian family education and not impose their own educational will on children;

That is to respect children's interests and choices and not impose their own interests and choices on children;

It is necessary to really build your own educational requirements on the basis of children's inner recognition. Otherwise, no matter how good your educational wishes are, it will be of no help to children.

Don't compare with others' children, only compare with others' children

Parents love their children. They should understand that every child in the world is a good child, and every child in the world is different. Their own children have their own strengths and weaknesses compared with other children.

That is to say, we should adopt a "rational thinking" in dealing with children's future and expectations. We should not blindly compare our children with others' children, let alone blindly "compare". Otherwise, we will force our children into a dead end of learning and life, and then suffer from learning failure phobia.

Don't compare with other people's children, only compare with other people's children, that is, let children understand that you have advantages, and I have advantages; You are short, so am I; Reward their strong points and allow their weak points. Knowing their own strengths and carrying forward their own strengths, children will become more and more confident in their study and life; Understand your own shortcomings and know that no one is perfect. Children's learning and life will become more and more rational.

To make children's learning and life meaningful

Whether it is school or family learning, if it is compulsory learning, there may be a situation: children either learn for their parents, or for their teachers, or for their future work, instead of learning for their own inner growth and development needs.

Therefore, on the whole, children's internal motivation and willingness to learn will become very low!

Education that fails to awaken children's intrinsic willingness to learn is necessarily inefficient education. To awaken children's internal learning intention, children must feel, experience and recognize that the current learning and life are meaningful.