Dalian family education: what aspects of training do you pay attention to?

Dalian family education focuses on children's values, excellent character, learning to be a person, self-confidence, personality and emotional intelligence.

1. Values

According to psychology, the important values of our life can be defined as "the important principles, or goals, that govern life unswervingly". In short, under the influence of what environment, your values will always put you in a correct judgment. Whether it is trivial or concrete, it is the direction indicator to adjust the direction of our life. Therefore, how important is a correct value. No matter how much higher education you receive, the deviation of values will change your life. This point deserves attention as a parent.

2. Excellent character

In this society, if you want to be respected, you must have excellent character. Even if a person has no culture, ordinary ability, and is destitute, as long as his character is noble, he will always have a certain impact. Just as Napoleon said, the power of the spirit is ten times stronger than that of the body. Some parents only care about their children's achievements and let their children study abroad to receive higher education and learn advanced culture, but their children still abuse the motherland. What kind of cause has what kind of effect, what kind of character a person has, what kind of life. A person without excellent character, no matter how much knowledge he has, can hardly become a useful person in society.

3. Learn to be a man

Many parents do not care about their children's training in this aspect, thinking that children will know it by themselves when they grow up. However, parents may not realize that learning to be a person and what kind of person they are will affect their children's choice of life path in the future. A patriotic person will care about the motherland. Even if he is in a foreign country, he still wants to return to China for construction. People like Qian Xuesen have a passion for serving the motherland and will return to the embrace of the motherland in spite of all difficulties and dangers. Therefore, parents should teach their children how to be a person and what kind of person they are when they are young, so that they can become useful talents when they grow up.

4. Confidence

It is very important for children to have self-confidence, which is also the basis of many things. Children without self-confidence will find it difficult to do something. Compared with children with self-confidence, they need to spend more time and may not get good results. Therefore, children should be encouraged to express their self-confidence in daily life and gradually build up their self-confidence to help them grow better.

5. Character

The quality of a person's character will affect the views of people around him on children. If a child has a violent family environment, the child's character must be very easy to lose his temper. If it is in a harmonious family, the child's character will be more gentle and modest. Therefore, the mother should create a good environment, which will be beneficial to the children's interpersonal communication in the future.

6. EQ

The level of EQ will become more important in today's society. IQ is only the foundation. High EQ can help you go further. Therefore, cultivating children's emotional intelligence can help children communicate more smoothly with others. It is suggested that parents pay attention to their words and deeds at ordinary times, and set an example for children. If necessary, they can choose some courses to assist.