Through research, Dalian family education has found that there are five levels as parents: substitution type, prevention type, professional type, coach type and tutor type. "Every type of parents has a profound impact on the growth of children. Tutor type parents are the parents that children like and successful parents."
So, what kind of parents do you belong to? Let's take a look at it in detail:
The first is a substitute parent
Specific performance: Mislove, materialize children, control children, showing low self-worth.
Children's performance: no sense of responsibility, no sense of value, no confidence, no motivation, no progress, dependence, depression and fear.
The second type of preventive parents
Specific manifestations: distrust of children, worry, anxiety, insecurity, rejection and disappointment.
Children's performance: they are not trusted, have no sense of value, have no confidence, and are prone to deviant behavior, destructive behavior and dark personality.
The third kind of professional parents
Specific performance: know how to accept children and express awakened, powerful and hopeful behaviors to children.
Children's performance: feel nurtured, respected, powerful and trusted, and begin to live out who I am.
The fourth type of coaching parents
Specific performance: trust yourself, others and the environment, so that children can find strength from identity value.
Children's performance: to give play to their identity and appreciate their uniqueness and constructive behavior.
The fifth type of tutor parents
Specific performance: Sun type, high self-worth, influential and creative.
Children's performance: confident, capable, responsible, creative behavior, sunny personality.
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