Problems in family education in Dalian

The common problems in family education in Dalian include over protection, over indulgence, over indulgence, over autocracy, separation of birth and breeding, intergenerational education, competition anxiety, and parental power.

Overprotection

Sometimes, because parents pay too much attention to the children's superficial needs and neglect the children's invisible psychological needs, even if the children have excellent congenital conditions, they cannot get the development they deserve. When the child wants to run and play, some parents will forbid the child for fear of injury; In this way, children will develop the habit of not moving, their bodies will become late, weak and sickly, their mental development will inevitably be hindered, and their character will become timid, lack of self-confidence and unable to face difficulties.

Overindulgence

Excessive spoil is a common problem in many families. Children have any requirements, whether spiritual or material, which are unconditionally satisfied. If a child can always be satisfied, his ability to resist setbacks will not be trained, and it is easy to form personality defects such as solitude, pride, willfulness and selfishness.

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Some parents, regardless of the child's development, force him to learn to stand, walk, and write early, causing a serious imbalance in the child's body and mind, resulting in the child's irritability, anxiety, indifference, withdrawal, and other problems. They may also refuse to learn and do not know how to get along with others.

Excessive despotism

Parents are old and experienced, and they are elders themselves. It is easy to educate children with an authoritative and expert attitude. If parents often use authoritative words to regulate children, or even restrict their personal freedom, children will feel panic for a long time and even become more and more self-confident, which is not conducive to their mental growth. In addition, in family education, common problems such as restricting children's speech, criticizing children's mistakes, and generalizing by bias are easy to occur.

Separation of birth and maintenance, intergenerational Education

Parents can't accompany their children because of work and other reasons. Most of the families are assisted by the elderly to take care of the children. Therefore, it is a pity for children and parents to accompany them.

Competitive anxiety

Social pressure makes parents anxious, especially in the face of education problems. Parents are too nervous and always want their children to win at the starting line, so they will exert pressure on children and make them lose their childlike fun.

Parental power

Parents lack patience, understanding and respect with their children in an impetuous and stressful environment.