Precautions for family education in Dalian

Children's growth cannot be separated from family, and family has a great influence on children. Some children are special, some children are ordinary. Let's take a look at the precautions of family education together with the Dalian family education team. I hope it helps! Parents should let their children develop to a certain extent, do what they want to do according to their children's ideas, and even give analysis and help when they encounter problems and difficulties, instead of blindly describing the future for their children.

1. Look for highlights

Children should not be educated on the basis of achievements. For children, it is more important to learn to be hardworking, kind and self-improvement. Therefore, even if the child's academic performance is not good, it can not deny its advantages in other aspects.

2. Do a good job in the role of husband and wife

In a family, the roles of parents should be clear-cut. For example, in addition to caring for children's healthy diet, mothers also need to remind children to avoid mistakes. The mother can gently warn the child: "Mom doesn't like you to do this. If you do it again, mom won't like you." This kind of admonition can be progressive from admonition to warning, step by step. But remember, mothers can't beat children.

For children's education, it is not only the mother's responsibility, but also the father's responsibility. Experts often suggest that men should be strict with their children. Even if they really need to "beat" their children properly, the father should do the task.

Both parents should play a certain role in family education, and no one should take all the responsibility. If the role of parents is changed, the mother is too strict and the father is too weak, which may affect the normal character development of children.

3. Misunderstanding of parent-child generation

Before your child turns 12, as a parent, you don't have to explain to your child why you make every rule. It is necessary for children to develop obedience from an early age.

4. Reward and punish appropriately

When a child makes a mistake, the parents do not punish him or her lightly. It is easy for the child to feel that the mistake is OK. If he or she encounters the same mistake again, he or she may make it again. Therefore, parents should have a certain degree of authority and formulate punishment measures in advance. For children's education, rewards and punishments should be clear and reasonable. However, rewards and punishments should be appropriate. Too much negation and too much blame can easily make children rebellious.

5. Parents' words and deeds are consistent

When educating children, parents should have the same caliber, otherwise it is easy to cause children confusion, which is not conducive to children's good character.

6. Eliminate absolutism

Do not arbitrarily think that children's poor performance is due to their bad attitude. Help them in their studies, find out the reasons and overcome the obstacles in learning.

7. Misunderstanding of training class

For the problems of the training class, parents should act according to their ability and consider the actual ability of the children and the financial burden of the parents.