Introduction to Family Education in Dalian

With children in school, what should I do as a parent? How to do family education in Dalian is also summarized in three sentences.

First sentence: Build confidence. First, we should believe that our children are great and good! "My son is born to be useful, and my daughter is born to be not mediocre". There is no need to compare and admire other people's children, and you should believe that the children in front of you are the good scenery! Second, we should believe that we are good parents, and we can top 200 good teachers after we become good parents! Believe that what you give your children is good and great, and that what you give your children is what they need and want.

The second sentence: focus on action. To care for children is to care for this life and his feelings. Parents should always put themselves in the other's shoes and think: whether the child is bitter or not, whether the child is tired or not, and whether the child is happy or not. After these problems are figured out, family education should be carried out, and example teaching is more important than words. The power of example is infinite when it is implemented in real actions. The family education carried out with parents' practical actions will not be futile. All parents' efforts in action will be reflected in the children's future growth.

The third sentence: create an environment and give the children a piece of family blue sky. Every family, whether big or small, or even the whole family, has problems of one kind or another, often full of contradictions and disputes. The problems of sister-in-law relationship, mother-in-law daughter-in-law relationship, husband wife relationship, left behind children, supporting the elderly, generation gap, etc. will all cast a shadow on the children's young minds, thus damaging the environment for their growth, which is very unfavorable to their education, and will be detrimental to their future adulthood, success, and fame. Therefore, we should straighten out the family relationship and harmonious family relationship. Through effective communication, we should lower down, calm down, deal with various family problems, create a good environment, and give children a blue sky for their families.

Now in family relations, both husband and wife are the theme of the family. There are old people and young people in the family, how to treat the old people above? How to treat the following children? How to treat the family? How to treat people outside? In dealing with these relationships, I summarized a "six person rule for a harmonious family". If these six relationships are handled properly, the whole family relationship will be harmonious. Who are these six people? One is an old man, and the other is a child. Here children are called villains. The backbone of a family is both husband and wife, called adults here. They are all family members living under the same roof. There will be guests and benefactors at home. How do these six people get along? Treat the old like a villain (child) - the old like a child, how the old treat you when you are young, how you treat him when he is old;

Treat villains (children) as adults - don't think children are ignorant, respect them, and take them seriously as adults; Treat adults (both husband and wife) as guests - husband and wife should respect each other as guests and raise eyebrows with each other; Treat guests as if they were family members - be rude to guests and be as sincere as family members; Treat your family as if you were a benefactor - to be able to live in a family for decades must be the fate of your previous life, and you must be a benefactor; Treat the benefactor as if he were an old man - respect those who are kind to him in life and work. In this way, the "six person rule of a harmonious family" can be briefly described as: treat the elderly as villains, treat villains as adults, treat adults as guests, treat guests as family members, treat family members as benefactors, and treat benefactors as elderly people.