Now many Chinese parents have been questioning whether their children's emotional intelligence should be valued since childhood. Now let's discuss the natural vitality of love. Many parents complain in front of teachers and colleagues more than once:
I will give my child what he wants. I don't want him (her) to do anything at home. I just ask him (her) to do well in his / her academic performance. However, the child not only failed to do a good job, but also easily lost his temper. In fact, this is the result of the lack of EQ education.
Daniel, Professor of Harvard University, USA Gorman believes that "emotional intelligence is the key to success in life". Some people predict that the talent competition in the 21st century is not only the competition of intelligence, but also the competition of emotional intelligence. In 1995, Daniel Gorman, a professor of psychology at Harvard University, put forward the concept of "emotional intelligence".
Research and practice have proved that among many subjective factors of human success, intelligence quotient (IQ) factor accounts for about 20%, while emotional quotient (EQ) factor accounts for about 80%. Whether a person has a high EQ is closely related to the education and training in childhood. Therefore, the cultivation of EQ should start from an early age.
In some developed countries such as the United States, their EQ course is a compulsory course, which is more important than physical education! According to the traditional concept, the main factor that determines the fate of life is IQ, but in fact, we find that people with high IQ may not be successful and may not have a good fate. Those with an IQ of 160 always work for those with an IQ of 100.
If a person's IQ is low and his EQ is high, then EQ can tap the great potential of IQ and exert the great effect of IQ to promote the development and success of adults; If the IQ and EQ are low, the person will be mediocre; If a person has a high IQ but a low EQ, he or she has excellent grades in school, but he or she may not achieve anything in society;
For example, people with high IQ and EQ are bound to create excellent performance and achieve great success. Therefore, EQ Education in today's society has become an urgent task, and we should pay more attention to it. Especially for Chinese teenagers, we should strengthen the cultivation of their emotional intelligence so that they can show their bright future!
EQ can tap the great potential of IQ and exert the great effect of IQ to promote the development and success of adults; If the IQ and EQ are low, the person will be mediocre; If a person has a high IQ but a low EQ, he or she has excellent grades in school, but he or she may not achieve anything in society; For example, people with high IQ and EQ are bound to create excellent performance and achieve great success.
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