How to cultivate childrens independent ability?

In family education, parents should control their children's education within a reasonable range and give children more room for growth. If parents set every step in their children's life, it will affect their children's self-efficacy, that is, the expectation of whether they are able to complete the operation behavior in a specific situation. When parents do not plan their children's behavior in adulthood, children will lose their judgment of self-ability and do not know whether they have the ability to complete tasks independently.

Therefore, parents should be guides rather than planners in the process of children's growth. The person in charge of the family education project suggested that parents should let their children participate in some small things in life, such as doing housework, which can train their children's ability to complete one thing independently, enable them to learn to take responsibility, and obtain a sense of achievement in completing tasks independently.

Love nature and vitality: the harvest from the seminar on Youth Self management training camp

● get out of the misunderstanding that "self-management" is regarded as "self coercion and self-restraint", and let children fully bloom under "rules and moral norms".

● the learning motivation training camp helps children feel "his love" and "self love", from relying on "Thaksin" to building "self-confidence".

● guide children to take voluntary actions to achieve a better life in the future and win freedom of life with "self-discipline".

Early childhood is a critical period for children to gradually move from relying on their parents to self-reliance. However, many parents always think that their children can't do it well, and they always like to do everything for them. They like to instruct their children and interfere with them. Therefore, to cultivate children's independent living ability, parents should know how to let go in time, return independent time and space to children, encourage children to operate independently, think independently, explore independently, and give firm encouragement. The child's ability to live independently will be gradually developed as he progresses day by day.

It's a little early to cultivate children's independent living ability, but parents can cultivate children's independent consciousness.

1. To cultivate children's independent consciousness, we should first cultivate the ability of independent operation, which is actually to cultivate children's ability to solve problems.

2. As a parent, don't over arrange. Give the child a chance to do things by himself, so that he can learn how to do things.

3. Don't rush to give an answer. When children face difficulties and seek help from parents, they should not give answers directly, but give instructions to guide children to think and explore by themselves.

4. Parents should not be overprotective. Parents should give their children the opportunity to explore freely according to the danger degree of a thing and the surrounding environment, instead of letting them do it or not.

5. Parents should always encourage me. Children are still young, and it is inevitable to encounter various problems. At this time, if parents let it go, children will probably stop trying because they are afraid of failure. This will not only miss a better opportunity to develop children's ability to solve problems, but also make children feel frustrated. Therefore, parents should encourage their children in time when they are faced with difficulties, and be a good gas station master.