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Lin Qingxian: Deeply ploughing into family education to promote mutual promotion of party and family conduct

2023-03-22 11:28:53
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Family education is the beginning of education, which is related to the lifelong development of minors and the well-being of families, as well as national development and national progress. To this end, the country has issued the "Law of the People's Republic of China on the Promotion of Family Education", which provides direction guidance and systematic methods for promoting family happiness and social harmony, and cultivating socialist builders and successors with comprehensive development of morality, intelligence, physique, beauty, and labor. Accordingly, the insightful people represented by young talent Lin Qingxian, based on their simple feelings of family and country, have consciously devoted themselves to the cause of family education. With their foresight, solid knowledge, and systematic research, they have effectively promoted the integrated construction of party and family conduct, bringing a guiding and practical "Good Family Conduct of Party Members and Cadres" to the world at the appropriate time, and promoting the modern transformation of Chinese excellent traditional family culture The practical research on party and family conduct has made positive exploration and demonstration.

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Lin Qingxian

Zi Hengchen, born in 1976 in Zhuhai, Guangdong Province, is a senior family education instructor, a consultant to the Compilation Committee of "The Good Family Style of Party Members and Cadres", a vice chairman of the first session of the Professional Committee of Family School Community Education of the Chinese Family Education Society, a sponsor of the Special Fund for Love Nature and Vitality of the China Next Generation Education Foundation, and a founder of the domestic family education brand "Love Nature and Vitality" system, Author of a best-selling book on family education, "Happiness begins with acceptance.". He was once the executive director of the Academy of Family Education Sciences of the Chinese Society of Life Sciences, and the editor in chief of the special issue of People's Weekly, Family Style. I have been studying family education research for nearly 20 years. In 2012, I majored in family education research, visited nearly 100 famous Chinese families and folk residences, and conducted in-depth research on the construction of family culture and family education since 2500 years. I have registered more than 2 million words of research results and works with the National Copyright Administration, achieving good reputation effect in my practice.

With the official implementation of the "Law of the People's Republic of China on the Promotion of Family Education" on January 1, 2022, China's family education industry has ushered in a significant turning point in its development. Family education has risen from "family affairs" to "state affairs", which means that family education guidance and services will gradually embark on the path of legalization, standardization, and scientization. As a result, the professional team strength of family education research has been significantly strengthened, and high-level family education research results have continuously emerged.

Senior family education refers to the mentor Lin Qingxian, who is a pioneer in exploring family education, deeply rooted in it, and stands out as an outstanding representative. From spontaneity to self-consciousness, he gradually explored the laws and secrets of the mutual promotion of party and family conduct through more than 20 years of theoretical research and practical practice in families, and achieved certain professional research results, providing a reference blueprint for the deepening development of family education.

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Breaking Ten Thousand Books and Tracing Home Culture

In 2012, after winning the "2011-2012 Zhuhai Economic Person of the Year Award", Lin Qingxian immediately made a major decision to end the previous stage of his life, follow the direction of his heart, follow the love of his family and curiosity about the origin of his personality, and start anew. Since then, he has truly embarked on the path of professional research on family education.

Behind major decisions, there are often multiple factors, including emotional and rational ones.


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Lin Qingxian and His Wife Visit the Former Residence of Qian Mu and Qian Weichang


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Lin Qingxian and His Wife Visit Rong's Former Residence



It was the spring of 2001, accompanied by the first cry of his eldest daughter, when Lin Qingxian, a new father, rushed into the bookstore eagerly, trying to guide his family education practice with theory. However, the two parenting books that were barely available after searching two bookshops turned out to be translations of foreign theories. In response, he vaguely felt something wrong. "Our Chinese culture is extensive and profound, and the Chinese nation has always paid more attention to family, family education, and family style. There should be many relevant books."

Since then, Lin Qingxian has traveled more frequently between bookstores and libraries, assiduously studying family education books and materials, especially books related to Chinese culture, after work. Unexpectedly, I planted a seed in my heart to spread the excellent traditional Chinese culture with family culture as the core.

From a rational perspective, Lin Qingxian's early experience in business management consulting left him with a deep understanding that it is childhood, not adulthood, that determines a person's overall quality and life length. "Facing entrepreneurs at all levels, I have seen the distance between 'enterprise' and 'home', and that the corporate culture is actually the external manifestation of the entrepreneur's inner spiritual culture. I have seen the antecedent of adult personality - 'childhood personality'. This coincides with the view expressed by Cai Yuanpei in" The Cultivation of Chinese People ": "The family is the school at the beginning of one's life. The character of one's life, which is said to remain unchanged from one's ancestors, is most likely conceived in the family."


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Lin Qingxian Visits Shanxi Changjia Courtyard


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Lin Qingxian Visits the Qiao Family Courtyard


During an interview, Lin Qingxian spoke about such a small episode. One day, he received an invitation call from the publishing house. It turned out that the other party was very moved when they saw his eldest daughter's spiritual picture book "Simple Here" in the bookstore, and wanted to invite the father and daughter to edit a "Growth Dialogue". Lin Qingxian said it was difficult because he didn't say much during his daughter's entire growth process. This makes the other party very curious and wants to understand the specific practical process of Lin style family education. Lin Qingxian truthfully stated, "Using environmental education, parents are aware and aware of it, allowing their children to grow up unconsciously. This is the art of education. Environmental education is the front end of education, and the environmental education of Mencius' mother moving three times is the artistic embodiment of unspoken education."

Although the family education dialogue ended without resorting to words, Lin Qingxian stated that his own family has been a greater beneficiary of years of family education research: "My daughter has an independent personality, a thoughtful mind, a beautiful soul, and a healthy body. Nowadays, when I go to college abroad, I often chat with us through video every day. Our family must return from the city to the countryside every Saturday to spend weekends with their parents. My wife is very virtuous, and I am very happy."



Traveling Wanli Road to Construct a Systematic View of Family Education


Extensive reading of family culture has brought great spiritual nourishment to Lin Qingxian, while also stimulating his curiosity. Under what circumstances did those sages and sages grow up? He conceived the idea of going deep into the former residences and ancestral halls of celebrities to get a glimpse of the truth, trying to uncover the mystery of the birth of famous family traditions and family precepts.



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Lin Qingxian Visits the Xi Family Temple


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Lin Qingxian Visits Zeng Guofan's Hometown


Since then, Lin Qingxian has embarked on a journey of searching for his former residence for more than a decade, from Confucius and Mencius Laozhuang to Wang Yangming, Zhu Xi, and Zeng Guofan, to the former residence of leaders and revolutionary ancestors who have made outstanding contributions to the Party and the country in the past century, as well as some local folk residences in Guangdong. Together, there are over a hundred families, just to find a Chinese solution for the modern transformation of family education.

Integrating the family discipline system of Chinese celebrities and interviewing famous descendants, Lin Qingxian has made an important discovery: there are similarities and differences between family traditions and family rules, reflecting a core of family education: the diversity and multiple possibilities of people. Therefore, although family education is not a disciplinary education, it must include scientific education.

Lin Qingxian classifies the family teachings of hundreds of famous families, such as: "The Three Movements of Meng Mu" contains environmental education, Zeng Guofan's family teachings contain exit education, Sima Guang's growth story contains enlightenment from personal education, and Wang Yangming's mental education focuses not only on the education of conscience but also on the education of ambition. The traditional Chinese family education method was originally completed through multiple forms, such as situational education, physical education, verbal education, exit education, on-site education, three outlook education, ambition education, and love education. Based on this, Lin Qingxian saw the path of creative transformation and innovative development of modern family education; Therefore, it is firmly believed that modern Chinese families can provide practical guidance for entering their homes by integrating the excellent traditional Chinese culture, revolutionary culture, and advanced socialist culture with family culture as the core.



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Lin Qingxian Visits the Lin Zexu Memorial Hall


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Lin Qingxian Visits the Former Residence of the Proletarian Revolutionary Yang Pao'an



Lin Qingxian has gradually formed a set of educational concepts of adult, talent, and success. The education of becoming a "person" refers to the education of becoming a "person", rather than a simple education of "talent". The foundation of education is to establish morality and cultivate people; The family is an important place for adult education, and schools are difficult to replace. The education of "talent", which focused on the learning of knowledge and skills in the past, still needs to increase the accumulation of "knowledge" on this basis today. "Reading thousands of books and traveling thousands of miles" enables children to become knowledgeable, structured, and measured people. The education of "success" is to make a difference in children's lives, establish correct three outlooks, and establish correct life ideals. It also requires family education.

These important ideas have ultimately been written and systematically discussed. More than ten research results have been exported to society through "Professional Courses for Parents", "Parental Coaching Course", "Family Style Construction (I)", "Family Style Construction (II)", "Everyone is an Educator", and "The Secret of Arousing Inner Genius". In addition, nearly 100000 words of journal articles have been published.

"Family education determines personality, and school education determines talent." Lin Qingxian emphasized that every family is like a school, and parents are the principal of the school. How the family style depends on the parents, not only the children need to learn, but also the parents need to learn.


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Love the party and the family


We attach great importance to the construction of family ethics through family tutoring, and pay attention to the construction of family ethics through family tutoring to cultivate the good family ethics of Party members and cadres in the new era.


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Lin Qingxian Visits Mao Zedong's Former Residence


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Lin Qingxian Visits Zhuge Liang in Xiangyang, Hubei Province


Lin Qingxian has a deep understanding of this. He believes that if he can become a monk halfway through the family and deeply cultivate his family education career, his complex and beliefs cannot be separated from the influence of his family, especially the influence of his grandfather and father on himself.

"My grandfather is the party branch secretary in the village. He has been following him since childhood to receive party education. He grew up listening to stories of people who have devoted everything to the party and the country. He also often sees the villagers expressing their sincere gratitude to my grandfather." The words are full of respect for my grandfather.

"My father is a person with a spirit of dedication. He is conscientious, honest, and upright in everything. Every year, he is rated as an 'Excellent Party Member'. And 'home' is a common belief of my parents, who often say 'home is important!' Our family is very clean and harmonious. This belief in 'home' deeply affects me." From the perspective of Lin Qingxian's growth background, the family ethos permeates the party ethos, which in turn cultivates the party ethos.


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Lin Qingxian Visits the Revolutionary Holy Land of Yan'an


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Lin Qingxian Visits the Tomb Garden of a Qing Dynasty Official Bao Zheng


Lin Qingxian cites classics to recount the long-standing feelings of family and country and the concept of "the best under heaven" in the Chinese cultural system. "Mencius said, 'The foundation of the world is the country, the foundation of the country is the home, and the foundation of the family is the body'. 'Home' is the common belief of our Chinese nation, 'the country' is our big 'home', but without the CPC, we would not have our big 'home' now."


Two wind fusion systems gradually formed


In the process of studying the modern transformation of Chinese excellent traditional family culture, Lin Qingxian met a party and family style expert with the same feelings of family and country - Mr. Zheng Shengzhe. Mr. Zheng shared a lot of the core and connotation of party and family conduct, which greatly benefited him. Therefore, he frequently consulted Mr. Zheng on academic issues related to party and family conduct, and was greatly inspired in many aspects. Mr. Zheng also humbly learned about the modern transformation of traditional family culture from him, and the two became comrades in academic research.

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Lin Qingxian expressed that being invited to join the editorial team and participate in the compilation of "The Good Family Style of Party Members and Cadres" is a great affirmation and encouragement to him


After that, Lin Qingxian was invited by Mr. Zheng Shengzhe to join the editorial team of "The Good Family Style of Party Members and Cadres.". From preparation to publication, the book underwent more than 50 revisions, with a final draft of more than 230000 words. After being reviewed by relevant superior departments, it was submitted to the Party School Press of the Central Committee of the Communist Party of China for publication. Since its publication in July 2022, social procurement alone has reached 100000 copies, fully reflecting the high recognition of the book at the grassroots level.

  The excellent traditional Chinese culture and the family motto of the older generation of proletarian revolutionaries combine classic cases in theory, which is rich in content and readable.


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Lin Qingxian Visits Zhu Xi's Former Residence


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Lin Qingxian Visits Zhang Zai Shrine with Friends


The book has both ardent expectations and highly annotated discussions on Chinese excellent traditional culture, revolutionary culture, and advanced socialist culture. It is highly consistent with the spirit of the Twentieth National Congress of the Communist Party of China, and embodies the connotation of "the foundation of the world is in the country, the foundation of the country is in the home, and the foundation of the home is in the body". It is highly instructive, progressiveness, and practical.


Looking back on the process of participating in the compilation of the entire book, Lin Qingxian's deeper feeling is that "because of personal testimony, we are steadfast; because of action, we are moved." In this movement, there is a feeling derived from the edification of the editor in chief, Mr. Zheng Shengzhe, and the passing on of his spirit of seeking truth. This elder brother, who is more like his grandfather in terms of age and temperament, left a deeper impression on Lin Qingxian as "always energetic". He worked hard for 16 hours during the day, and even wrote articles until the early morning at night, averaging only three hours of sleep per day. "I asked him why he was so fascinated by the study of party and family conduct, and he firmly said, 'The party and the country need it'!"

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Lin Qingxian Visits the Former Residence of Yu Yao and Wang Yangming


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Lin Qingxian and Friends Visit the Former Residence of Ruan Yuan in Yangzhou


This unforgettable experience has made Lin Qingxian more determined in his decision to deepen his family education career, and he is also more convinced of the fact that both party and family styles come down in one continuous line and are rooted in the excellent traditional culture of the Chinese nation. The integration of party and family styles and academic research is necessary and necessary.


Resort to practice to deepen development


Today, Lin Qingxian is also more and more firmly walking on the road of integrated construction of party and family conduct.


Through personal exploration and growth, he realized that China's family education needs an exchange platform and talent interaction platform that can promote the comprehensive development of family education, a "national supported and social collaborative integration platform" mentioned in the "Law of the People's Republic of China on the Promotion of Family Education", and a demonstration platform to promote party and family conduct, A provincial and municipal demonstration landing template guided by the "Family Education Promotion Law of the People's Republic of China", and a display platform for the entire family education system. Finally, such personal expectations have received a response from the times.

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Lin Qingxian combines years of research to make a report on the practical results of family education in China


With the support of relevant departments, the Greater Bay Area of Guangdong, Hong Kong, and Macao will hold the "Chinese Family Culture and Family Education Exhibition" in May of the month of the "International Family Day". As a professional family educator and a native of Zhuhai, Lin Qingxian was once again invited to participate in the series of work at the exhibition

According to Lin Qingxian, the theme of the "China Family Culture and Family Education Exhibition" is "Promoting Party and Family Conduct, Promoting Harmony, Creating and Integrating Harmony", and the keynote is excellent traditional culture, red culture, and advanced socialist culture. It has multiple theme sections such as party and family conduct, red revolutionary culture, and the construction of a new era of family conduct. The exhibition includes the inheritance of the party's centennial party and family conduct, and the outlook for the second centennial party and family conduct, "The creative transformation of Chinese excellent traditional culture and family culture, modern family culture, research and practice achievements in party conduct and family conduct in universities, research and practice achievements in party conduct and family conduct in various regions, online family education platforms, and the exhibition gallery of over 10000 books on party conduct and family conduct. At the same time, it also integrates the characteristic display of ethnic minority" family culture "to enhance the conscious identification of various ethnic groups with the" big family "of the Chinese nation and jointly forge a sense of community of the Chinese nation.".

As a reference and exemplary measure to implement the "Law of the People's Republic of China on the Promotion of Family Education", this exhibition is the first party and family style exhibition that focuses on practice and integrates achievements since the founding of the People's Republic of China. It fully reflects the promotion and integration effect of national support and social coordination, and is expected to become a landmark exhibition in the history of family education in China.

For Lin Qingxian, it is timely to catch up with the vigorous development of family education, and advocating and promoting the integration of party and family conduct is the key to grasping the modern transformation of traditional Chinese family culture.


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Environmental Education - Correct attribution to "cause" can lead to positive "results"

By Lin Qingxian




Meng Mu is my first teacher who studied "environmental education".

The story is very old and the content is very new. Please read it with pleasure.

The story of Meng's mother moving three times should be familiar to everyone. Here, I would like to reiterate that setting a "antecedent" is very important in family education.

When Mencius was three years old, his father died, leaving the mother and son to live together. In order to keep filial piety, he moved to live near his father's cemetery. Gradually, Mencius and his children often played the game of weeping over graves and doing funerals. Meng's mother decided to relocate. Moving to live near the market, Little Mencius gradually began to imitate the peddlers' peddling. Meng's mother decided to relocate again. Moving near the school, Little Mencius began to truly learn. That's the story.

Environmental Education Enlightenment: Do you think Meng Mu has awareness and awareness? If Meng's mother attributes the error, attribute the problem to the child rather than the environment. So, will Mother Meng often blame little Mencius for only playing and not focusing on learning without changing the environment?

This raises a common educational question in modern families: "educating children" or "changing the environment"?

There is a realistic lesson plan: A 3-year-old child ran to my podium and jumped about. If you were listening to a class under the podium, what would you do? The reality I see is that some parents are starting to get restless, and even someone is shouting, "Whose child is it? Can you manage it?" We start blaming parents! "We habitually attribute ourselves to 'people', which can eventually evolve into conflicts between adults and children who are scolded into crying.". This is focusing on "educating children".

Conversely, what if we focus on "changing the environment"?

From "environmental guidance", we just need to squat down and say to the child, "Child, we have prepared a small trampoline for you outside. You can jump outside, but it's not allowed here!" Then gently, clearly, and with a stand, tell the child, "The teacher loves you!" The child will be happy to run outside and play on the trampoline.

During this process, children only know that there is a trampoline outside to play, but how can they know that it is a "environmental education" deliberately arranged by adults. The art of environmental education has resolved the conflict between "people", attributed correctly, and everything has become natural. As a result, children have learned "where to jump" and "where not to jump", and their awareness of rules has begun to enlighten. At the same time, the child is loved and seen. Love and rules happen at the same time, and in doing what you want, you don't go overboard.

"Knowing where to do and what not to do" is one of the manifestations of a person's "growth.". A growing process of establishing rules between "environment" and "people".

There is no harm here, only love; There is no control, only suitability; There is no blockage, only dredging.

Environmental education is the front end of education, and environment is the antecedent of education. We should learn from Mother Meng. Family education can be an art, and "environmental education" is a kind of unspoken education that no longer requires "lion roaring", gentle and loving.

Parents consciously and unconsciously let their children grow up, and the development of environmental education can give us more opportunities to hold a map of China and the world, and hold a design map of environmental education at home to envision a better future for our children.

——The original text is published in the semimonthly issue of "Chinese Talents"

Issue 06, 2023


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